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The ONLY guide you need to changing your life (from the BIGGEST business and life gurus around the world)

by Marianne Cantwell

I know there’s a lot of career changing advice out there. And I know you’re busy.

So I spent weeks reading through all those articles, blogs, tweets and books on life change. All to bring YOU answers to the 7 top life change questions you (dear readers) have asked me via this blog and on Twitter.

Seriously, I am EXCITED about sharing this with you. All of the world’s top advice on this, in ONE place? Wow. This should clear everything up. Ok, take a deep breath, here we go!

Answers to your top 7 questions, courtesy of the world’s leading career gurus.

1. What should I do next?

  • Stick to what you know
  • Explore things you don’t know

2. I don’t have the contacts I need! How do I meet them?

  • Network online (face to face is so 2008)
  • Network face to face (online’s pointless)

3.  How should I make contact with people I don’t know?

  • Cold call, you wimp.
  • Don’t cold call, who likes cold callers?

4. Should I figure out a clear plan before starting?

  • Yes!
  • No!

5.  I’m going around in circles!

  • Calm down: think things through, stop just diving in
  • Get out there! Dive into action, stop thinking so much

6.  How do I get my message across?

  • Develop a personal brand
  • Are you joking? Personal branding is a wanky term.

7.  Should I focus on my skills when deciding what to do next?

  • Yes, they are all you have. Analyse your skills
  • No, your skills are just a mini-teeny part of you. Forget about them. Just visualise… like, stuff. Nice stuff.

All right! That sorted everything out then.

By the way, I wish the above was a joke. It’s not.

If you want to spend weeks reading career change books, life change blogs and business launch ebooks, have fun. But at the end you’ll be as confused as I was when I first entered this field.

As a shortcut, here’s my take on it: ALL OF THE GURUS ARE RIGHT. Even when they contradict each other.

How is that possible? Simple. They are each speaking to different people. And they each come from the perspective of what sort of person THEY are, and what would work for them. As everyone is different, we have contradiction!

Every one has their own path to what makes them happy in a career, and everyone has their own path to what works in career change. One single guide, or one single approach for changing careers will never work for everyone.

Imagine if Bill Gates tried to host the Oprah Winfrey show, or if Oprah tried to run Microsoft. Wouldn’t work, right? (Funny though). Oprah and Gates are both super-successful. But they get there in different ways. And I’d bet that if they were to change career they’d do things differently to each other.

The good news IS, there is one guide, or piece of advice, for changing careers that WILL work for you. It won’t work for the person sitting next to you, but it will work for you. It’s just a question of finding it.

Knowing your your thing (ie: who you are and what works for you) is the only reliable way to discover the your direction  - for you. It’s the only way of knowing which sort of advice you should listen to, which to ignore, and how to go about things in a way that will work for you.

And that’s my advice for the day :)

Marianne x

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  • Another coach

    I wish that was wrong, but it's not. I'm a career coach but I'm going to comment anonymously until I figure out a witty comeback! The only thing I will say is that there are best practice approaches to changing careers and that career coaches and writers do add value by telling people about those.

  • http://www.lessordinaryliving.com Phil – Less Ordinary Living

    Marianne – nice post and too true! I'm a career coach and have helped hundreds of people to find success in the world of work. Everyone is unique and finds their own path to satisfying work. The key thing that differentiates success is having the attitude to get out there and make it happen. Once that is in place, the rest is simply finding the right path to pursue. If you consistently knock on doors, you'll find the right one for you.

  • amitsodha

    Nice post! I've noticed the same too! You see a rule and then someone else tells you to break it. It's a good idea in this world to throw the rule book out the windown and forge a path of your own…look at the feedback closely and you'll start to see what works and what does not! Fab article!

  • http://www.free-range-humans.com/ Marianne Cantwell

    Thanks guys! It's not a surprise that you two were some of the few who were forward thinking enough to comment on this article!

    The challenge is out there for more coaches to think like this, rather than squeezing people into a particular 'career change structure'. Anyone else agree?

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